Couple journey
Couples Program

Still, I Choose You

The Path Home to Each Other.

"Urugo" is the Kinyarwanda word for home — the homestead, the hearth, the place of belonging. This program is for couples who want to find their way back to each other.

10

Weeks

2.5 hrs

Per Session

2×/yr

Cohort Cycles

What Is Still, I Choose You?

Not Couples Therapy.
Couples Transformation.

Still, I Choose You is a 10-week couples journey. Through guided sessions, honest conversation, and practical tools, you and your partner will learn to communicate more deeply, resolve conflict without destruction, and rebuild or deepen the intimacy that brought you together.

We work with couples at every stage: newlyweds building a strong foundation, long-married couples navigating the weight of years, and partners in difficult seasons who aren't ready to give up.

"Our facilitators are not prescribing or diagnosing — they are walking alongside you, equipping you, and holding space for your growth."

Who Is This For?

Married couples at any stage of their marriage

Engaged couples preparing for marriage

Couples navigating conflict, distance, or disconnection

Couples recovering from betrayal, grief, or trauma

Couples doing well who want to go deeper

You do not need to be in crisis to attend Still, I Choose You. The strongest couples we know invest in their relationship before it demands it.

Program Details

FormatWeekly sessions · 2.5 hours each · 10 weeks
LanguageKinyarwanda (English available)
LocationEFC Kigali Centre
CohortsApr–Jun (Cohort 1) · Oct–Dec (Cohort 2)

The Journey

10-Week Journey Outline

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1–2

The Couple You Are

Relational patterns, attachment, and the invisible agreements shaping your marriage

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3–4

The Language of Your Relationship

Love languages, communication styles, speaking in ways your partner can actually receive

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5–6

Navigating Conflict Without Casualties

Conflict is not the enemy; contempt is. Learning to disagree without destroying

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7–8

Rebuilding Trust & Intimacy

Pathways for restoring connection — emotionally, spiritually, physically

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9–10

Designing Your Marriage Together

Vision-casting as a couple: the home you want to build, the legacy you want to leave

"We came to Still, I Choose You as roommates. We left as partners again. I cannot explain what happened in that room — only that it was real, and it changed us."

— Still, I Choose You, Graduate Couple, Kigali

Both partners must register together. A sliding-scale contribution is requested. Bursaries are available — speak with our team.

RWF 240,000 / ~$200 sponsors a couple through the full Still, I Choose You journey.

Find Your Way
Back to Each Other.

The next cohort is forming now. Register as a couple or contact us with any questions.